Do I love him enough?

First if you really do love him, you need to ask yourself this question: Would you take a bullet in the head for him? Would you jump in front of a incoming train? Would you die for him? If you answered any of these questions yes, than maybe you need to find ways to re-attract yourself to him, which is possible. Just need to find what attracted you to him in the first place. If no, or you just can't find yourself attracted to him anymore than maybe it is time for change. You live and you learn. Believe it or not there are really good men out there. In truth no one can answer this question for you. Only you can.